Post by Waffu-Waffu on Feb 18, 2013 19:15:51 GMT -5
I hate to start this message by chewing out someone for being disrespectful and rude. I really like to be the nice guy around here...but I suppose I have to play the flip side of the coin and be the bad guy too.
I can honestly say I’m disappointed in your behavior, Snakey.
Why’s that? I’ll tell you why. You’re being incredibly rude to the people on V1, as you can see here and here .
For those who can’t open the links to see this, I’ll quote them here too.
In response to Silverleaf incorrectly posting her bio and asking someone to check her bio when we have moved, Snakey said this: “We have moved, you idiots.”
And in response to the continual posting of bios, She then said this: “People , READ THIS THREAD BEFORE YOU JOIN WE ARE NOT HERE ANYMORE STOP POSTING F**KING BIOS.”
I just copied and pasted these, by the way. I’m not joking. If I made this up, I wouldn't be so blunt and rude about it.
Really Snakey? You of all people are being rude to the new members? You've been here for maybe a year, if not less. You should be considered a new member yourself, but since you've stuck and you know the rules, I'm going to treat you as a senior member. I don’t believe you, or anyone else for the matter, have the right to behave this way on this site. You were just like these people when you joined, and we managed to be generally pleasant to you. I remember wanting to fuss at you a few times for doing something I thought was dumb, but I held my tongue, like you should. I ask that you show the same courtesy to these people. There are hundreds if not thousands of different, nicer ways to respond to these situations, and you obviously chose the wrong one.
I don’t care how annoying the new members can get, or what questions they may ask that you may deem stupid. It is your job as a senior member to guide these people around and help them when they need it. And it is your job as a decent human being, which I know you are, to be civil with them.
NO ONE will want to join a site after they've been treated badly; that's just common sense. I've heard complaints that there a lack of people here. Perhaps its partially due to nasty comments like the ones above?
It doesn’t matter how bad of a day you’ve had. Who broke up with you, what you didn’t get that day, whether you’re sick or not, or whether you didn’t get your macaroni and cheese that you were promised for dinner, you are to be polite. If you can’t handle that responsibility, then you are to leave this site and not come back until you fix your behavior. I don’t have patience for people who will so blatantly disrespect another without any regard for the other’s emotions. If I see this one more time, you will not be allowed any authority on this site, including the positions of power, even if it has been accepted already. After that, I will ban you from this site.
Speaking of considering other people’s emotions, I really hope this embarrassed you and showed you that no one likes a senior member who will abuse their powers. I’m honestly trying to be mean to you, since you seem to think that being mean to others is perfectly fine.
This entire rant applies to everyone on the site, not just Snakey. I know you are very nice people, because, believe me, if you weren’t, I wouldn’t be here anymore. Cobalt, Ven, and even Blizzy are subject to being chewed out as well for misconduct and disrespect. One of the top ten rules is to be nice here, and I expect that to be enforced and respected for everyone.
I know you’re a very nice person Snakey, and I hate to be the bad guy here and chew you out, but I can't stand people who act like you did on those two posts. You’re respected here, but not when you act so rudely. Clean up your act and you’ll gain some of my respect back.
I can honestly say I’m disappointed in your behavior, Snakey.
Why’s that? I’ll tell you why. You’re being incredibly rude to the people on V1, as you can see here and here .
For those who can’t open the links to see this, I’ll quote them here too.
In response to Silverleaf incorrectly posting her bio and asking someone to check her bio when we have moved, Snakey said this: “We have moved, you idiots.”
And in response to the continual posting of bios, She then said this: “People , READ THIS THREAD BEFORE YOU JOIN WE ARE NOT HERE ANYMORE STOP POSTING F**KING BIOS.”
I just copied and pasted these, by the way. I’m not joking. If I made this up, I wouldn't be so blunt and rude about it.
Really Snakey? You of all people are being rude to the new members? You've been here for maybe a year, if not less. You should be considered a new member yourself, but since you've stuck and you know the rules, I'm going to treat you as a senior member. I don’t believe you, or anyone else for the matter, have the right to behave this way on this site. You were just like these people when you joined, and we managed to be generally pleasant to you. I remember wanting to fuss at you a few times for doing something I thought was dumb, but I held my tongue, like you should. I ask that you show the same courtesy to these people. There are hundreds if not thousands of different, nicer ways to respond to these situations, and you obviously chose the wrong one.
I don’t care how annoying the new members can get, or what questions they may ask that you may deem stupid. It is your job as a senior member to guide these people around and help them when they need it. And it is your job as a decent human being, which I know you are, to be civil with them.
NO ONE will want to join a site after they've been treated badly; that's just common sense. I've heard complaints that there a lack of people here. Perhaps its partially due to nasty comments like the ones above?
It doesn’t matter how bad of a day you’ve had. Who broke up with you, what you didn’t get that day, whether you’re sick or not, or whether you didn’t get your macaroni and cheese that you were promised for dinner, you are to be polite. If you can’t handle that responsibility, then you are to leave this site and not come back until you fix your behavior. I don’t have patience for people who will so blatantly disrespect another without any regard for the other’s emotions. If I see this one more time, you will not be allowed any authority on this site, including the positions of power, even if it has been accepted already. After that, I will ban you from this site.
Speaking of considering other people’s emotions, I really hope this embarrassed you and showed you that no one likes a senior member who will abuse their powers. I’m honestly trying to be mean to you, since you seem to think that being mean to others is perfectly fine.
This entire rant applies to everyone on the site, not just Snakey. I know you are very nice people, because, believe me, if you weren’t, I wouldn’t be here anymore. Cobalt, Ven, and even Blizzy are subject to being chewed out as well for misconduct and disrespect. One of the top ten rules is to be nice here, and I expect that to be enforced and respected for everyone.
I know you’re a very nice person Snakey, and I hate to be the bad guy here and chew you out, but I can't stand people who act like you did on those two posts. You’re respected here, but not when you act so rudely. Clean up your act and you’ll gain some of my respect back.
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